Does size really matter?
Do you wonder whether 5 inches is too small?
Does the size of your penis bother you?
Are you concerned that you’re not satisfying your partner?
These are all questions we hear a lot at Boompi.
Being able to satisfy your partner sexually is vital for a successful intimate relationship. The common opinion of penis size is that big is best. A lot of guys believe that they need a huge dong to make her come vaginally.
Is a 9-inch cock really what a woman wants to bring her to orgasm, though?
If you’re feeling a little worried that you’re not well-endowed enough, maybe you’ll feel a bit better when you’ve read this article. You should also have a better idea of how to make her howl with pleasure next time you get jiggy.
We’ve been digging around on the net, and we’ve also surveyed a few females to find out whether you need a 9-inch dick to keep her wanting more.
What Does Science Say?
There are loads of studies on penis size. They all say the same thing. 5 inches is the most common penis size.
One study of 1661 men found the mean average erect penis length is just under 5 inches. This means that 5-inchers are the common of all penis sizes. You don’t hear many women complaining about 5 inches being too small.
When you think about it, you realize a big dick is not so important. The average vagina measures just over 2 inches long.
How Do Women Orgasm During Sex?
The real reason most women don’t orgasm vaginally is because most men don’t know how to thrust properly.
Orgasm from intercourse happens by getting the right kind of stimulation.
Pace yourself. Slow and steady is the name of the game. While hard and fast can feel amazing for a woman, this approach is rarely orgasmic.
Use the correct technique on her clitoris. Use slow and steady movements with your tongue or fingers varying the pressure slightly.
Make sure you target the right spots, ask her if you have it right. Get her to position your tongue or finger by placing it in the right spot with her own fingers.
The most sensitive parts of a woman’s vagina are the G-spot and the cervix. These are the most orgasmic spots that your cock needs to reach as you slowly thrust it inside of her.
You can easily target a woman’s G-spot with a 5-inch cock through doggie style or any position where you are behind her like spooning.
To hit the cervix, use positions with deep thrusting and her legs above her head, or raise her pelvis with a pillow. You want to thrust deeply, but slow and steady.
Spend Enough Time
It takes up to 45 minutes to work a woman up to real orgasmic potential, especially the cervix. The G-spot can take 20 to 30 minutes
Don’t mix it up. As she becomes more aroused you might be tempted to wow her with different positions, but don’t do that. Stay in the same position. The more excited she gets, stay the course because what you’re doing is exactly right and will bring her to orgasm. So, stay where you are and build and build her pleasure.
Pay attention to her energy. You should be penetrating her with your presence, and with your mind just as much as your cock or dildo.
You can bring her to orgasm by holding your penis or dildo against her cervix totally still. You don’t need to be pushing her towards orgasm, just follow her body and her pleasure.
What Do Women Think?
We asked a couple of our female friends what they think.
“It’s about how those 5 inches are used… Not all women are satisfied or even able to reach orgasm from penetration alone… If you’re just concentrating on giving pleasure solely from penetration and you feel your size isn’t enough consider working on techniques for clitoral stimulation with your tongue or fingers.”
“I’ve never been a fan of big dicks. I much prefer to focus on the person attached to it. I get far more turned on by his technique than by the size of his cock.”
“I can’t say I know from experience but I’m sure it would be fine if he was skilled in other ways.”
We hope this article has put your mind at rest if you’re worried about the size of your penis. It’s all about how you use it, so relax and work on your technique.
Make sure you favourite our blog as we’ve got loads more tips on how to have great sex lined up this summer.
Enjoy yourself and see you soon!